Time Please !

Winning may be a habit, sometimes a want, a passion, a dream, but reality can always

vary.

There necessarily has to be one winning position, so what about the rest?

Yes, they loose, loose to the winner!

Life is not just about winning, it is more about learning, planning, executing and then introspecting.

It is completely fine to goof-up at times, loose a match, bunk a class, fail an exam, miss a train, skip a schedule, spoil an interview, an unwise decision at times, have a breakup, start a fight, no preplanned, pamper yourself, poking a friend, secret outing, a healthy lie, a little secret.

This makes you believe in the human aspect of life, making mistakes is considerable; nobody has ever won without stumbling through small failures before getting to the goal [or reaching at least close].

Life is all about how you perceive things, not about your temperament and aptitude or prevalent situation.

Being a good heart is more important and tough than being a winner.

Winning gives you confidence, pride, contentment, satisfaction, accolades whereas failure tells you that you need to push it little harder and better, be more focused, more patient, more passionate, and more hopeful.

But till the time you are ready to grow, compensate and idolise your failure, it is nothing grave and wrong.

Nobody really cares about your grades and degrees, your presentation and trophies.

People will only remember you for the good you do to them, for the soul you share with them, your smile and a happy heart in you.

The more you think about profit and loss, the deeper you sink in the density of materialism without being able to ever enjoy what is at hand. It is never about morals and ethics, but about your perception towards situation and being able to take on the reality.

Contentment is the greatest virtue, if we do not feel elevated or satisfied about what we already have; nobody can help us achieve this.

There is no end to desire, but there is a big difference between need, wants and desire.

Life cannot be lived while you keep comparing with what anyone else has, no two people can be the same nor can their situation, circumstances and lives be. So it leads you nowhere.

So, give time some time, and things automatically fall into place to make you feel alive again!!!