The world celebrates 'The International Women's Day' on March
8th every year, but it is every day that you should celebrate your existence.
I love the complicated existence of a woman! Don’t you?
Girls are born to be caring and curious, obsessed and observing, loving and
lovable, responsible and rocking, savage and sassy, bright and beautiful.
There is something so beautiful, strong and special about being a woman.
In everyday work life we are always vying to exceed our appraisal goals and
running behind the daily chores. And on top of it, there is this omnipresent
pressure of gender bias to deal with at work. Over a period of time, and with
different experiences I have had, I have come to the conclusion that most of
this pressure is uncalled for and self-created.
Each person has a unique role to play, then why beat you up by trying to be equal to someone else. I believe we should relish our multi-dimensional presence filled with emotions, intellect, insights and intuitions, and remember that we are capable of marvelous things.
Figure out your strengths, jump over the hurdles and keep running.
Sometimes, you will wonder if you are doing enough or getting rewarded enough.
These thoughts will exhaust your brain and physical self. But the true,
unstoppable woman in you will have the resilience to handle each day with
strength and be successful in whatever you do.
Among all the chaos, try listening to that little voice right in there - soul
voice, it is a mix of doubt and determination, vulnerability and strength.
There will be days when you would look clueless, days of self-doubt.
But you must learn to get yourself together and tell yourself that there is no
glass ceiling high enough for you to shatter.
Learn to appreciate yourself, check what a rush it gives when you try to do
create, explore, and observe new things.
Don’t ask for equality, act equal, and come out of that shell. Participate and
win, rather win big.
You should, you must become the person you want the other person to be.
It is better done then said, have you tried multitasking, taking an escalation
- work call while painting your nails and checking your mails? its amazingly
satisfying.
With the insane amount of hours that we work at office, it’s important to have
a balance. It’s okay to take a break, its okay to think about you, and yes,
it’s definitely not something to feel guilty about.
So, while it’s essential to stay relevant and slog to deliver impeccable work
and up skill and excel in newer things of AWS, RPA and cloud, it is equally
important to take time off to do what you like-
•Go on a holiday, go for fitness training, read a book or just sleep, digital
detox.
•Watch Gossip Girl or Games of Thrones or work on improving your scores in PUBG
•Go for some retail therapy
•Better still; try to save the world by giving up plastics! Ever tried a
plastic detox?
•Or just listen to what your heart says
Cherish every moment and while you douse all the fire around, trust me you
have no idea what destruction you are capable of.
You can make him love you and choose to leave him too.
You are intense enough to make a 'Kabir Singh', that is epic savage!
Girls you are born to rule, go for the kill.
Make people wonder how you still flaunt your version of the Mona Lisa smile.
“The success of every woman should be the
inspiration to another. We should raise each other up. Make sure you are very
courageous; be strong, be extremely kind, and above all be humble. “~Serena
Williams
